"So often the bride and groom want everyone to identify with the love they share, and they think they can do it with music, but it's like, who cares that 'In Your Eyes' is their song?" asked Darren Rose, 29, a radio advertising account executive and D.J. in San Diego, who has received three wedding discs in the last two years, none of which he wanted to hear twice. "They're trying to express themselves, but they do it with the same songs everyone's heard a million times."